- Your twenties are only marginally less angsty than your teens. I may no longer be a desperately insecure attention-seeker with a black and white view of the world, but I am still a chronic overthinker with the capacity to be a huge drama queen. And while I’m definitely less insecure now, it is the nature of the insecurities that has changed more than anything. As a teen, they stemmed from uncertainty about the future, whereas nowadays…